We are young, energetic and ambitious but impatient. We want to "successful", fast. Success is defined relative to the "success" of our peers which gives a feeling that if we are not rushing things we are "falling behind". In our definition success is a race. When you are running a race you can't stop to see if this race is something worth running for. In the "race of life" everybody is a looser. I think I can also say "in any race of life everybody is a looser".